Travel Companion Etiquette
Tim is a “man’s man” who blows shit up with explosives for a living. When he isn’t busy being a dude, he is the ultimate Hair Husband.
Having been to various shows and events within the hair industry, I feel the need to share a little wisdom for those Hair Husbands that tag along. A service if you will... Nay, a guide, to prevent possible divorce, break up, and/or certain endless nagging for your drunken or bad mannered deeds. I will not expound too much on why I know all of these rules for fear of self-incrimination (I have a friend, I’m always talking about the friend!).
Limit alcohol intake.
This is by far one of the most important issues my friend has. Most of the time he can keep it together and be a respectable Hair Husband. But there are those times, especially in Las Vegas, where drinking at 8AM could avoided for the sake of others. Remember, there are any assortment of celebrities, business people, or mentors that you could meet at the drop of a hat. Don’t be that guy or gal that everyone remembers as the “way too drunk” party date. It reflects badly on you and your partner.
Dress for the occasion.
I cannot imagine that anyone gets away with this unless they are either unloved, or both of you just have poor taste. Now I’m just a guy with no delusions of grandeur, but there are some classic outfits that fit any occasion for us men. For women, it’s a lot more difficult and I won’t pretend to understand all of the details. If you walk into a show or restaurant in Bermuda shorts and a wife beater, or a tube top and daisy dukes, then maybe you’re in the wrong profession. Pimp or whore should not come to mind when others see you. Keep it classy folks!
Don’t be a know it all.
This applies to life in general. I am not a hair person and do not pretend to be an expert on any subject. You either have knowledge or you don’t. If you want more, then go to the classes or meet the people that do know. And do not pretend to be the expert or the hot shot. A little humble pie goes a long way in creating new friendships or relationships that will grow. Nobody likes a know it all aka “one upper”.
Do not mix other nefarious substances with alcohol.
My friend did that once at a show. Man did he look like a jackass.
Be seen when needed. Be heard when asked.
I have a unique perspective when it comes to the hair industry in that I am not a hair stylist. This affords me needed ignorance when it comes to all thing hair related. Unless I know the person my spouse is talking to, I tend to do formal introductions only. Then I let them do the talking. Sometimes I add my rugged good looks and classic charm to the situation because it is so hard to keep at bay, but that’s the only contribution I am required to make. Less if often times more.
Last but not least, Have Fun!
You do not have to be a part of the industry to enjoy yourself. There are endless opportunities to meet new people and be sociable, all while taking in an endless supply of beautiful and enigmatic people. Entertainment abounds at all of the events… So don’t be a scrooge or maniac and you’ll have a great time.